31 Ogos, 9 tahun lalu...

31 Ogos yang paling di ingati adalah 9 tahun lalu 

Malaysia sambut Hari Kemerdekaan ke 50, bunga api meriah sana sini, kami di bahagian Kecemasan Hospital Muar bawa Dina yg berusia 11 hari yg kembung perut & muntah teruk hingga doktor suspect intestinal obstruction. Dina dipuasakan selama lebih sehari, sayu sungguh hati mendengar tangisan dan jeritan dia yang rindu susu Ummi . Ummi pun asyik menangis walaupun dalam pantang 😭

Alhamdulillah rupanya ada meconium yang tersekat. Selepas puasa, semua simptom hilang. 

Selama Dina puasa tu, IV drip yang diberi mengandungi glucose. Dalam masa 2 hari, tembam jadinya Dina 😅 sampai skrg juga beringat kalau nak makan manis-manis 

Alhamdulillah sekarang Dina membesar dgn sihat. Dah umur 9 tahun & wajah seiras copy paste Ummi 😁 Minat baking, swimming & mkn sushi sama macam Ummi 😘🍣

Alhamdulillah... 

Bad mother vs good mother

Must tell this to ourselves as mothers, we ARE NOT BAD MOTHERS if 

✅ we don't cook every single day for our children 

✅ we let our kids eat fast food once in a while 

✅ our kids' school uniforms are not entirely spotless 

✅ we forget our kids' school projects once in a while (I even forgot to fetch my baby once from the babysitter, after a very long day 😖) 

✅ we lost our patience and yell 

✅ we want to buy a nice dress we don't need with our salary (because you're worth it!) 

✅ we want to spend RM300 on a spa session once a month (to restore our sanity) 

✅ we want to go to sleep at 9pm 

✅ we have a maid 

So other people might have a different opinion. 

Let them be (i.e screw 'em) 

They are not paying any of our bills 😏

Yours sincerely, 

Your fellow imperfect-mom. ❤️