When I was struggling with 4 kids and no helper , years ago , my psychiatrist friend came to my clinic to check his dry eyes.
I forced him to sit and listen to me rambling .
I was tired , on the verge of breaking down
I was the head of the department at the age 35, and I have a high demand baby at home.
His advise was simple and I use it until now
“DELEGATE THINGS.
THINGS THAT CAN BE DONE BY SOMEONE ELSE, LET SOMEONE ELSE DO IT .”
I said I don’t wanna cook .
He said, “Buy your dinners”.
I said I don’t have the energy to clean the house .
He said ,”Get a cleaner “.
No one can breastfeed my baby for me, so that one I had to do myself .
For everything else that can be delegated , DELEGATE!
I swear I haven’t clean my house since then .
That’s a job for the cleaner .
And I am much happier now.
Sure glad that psychiatrist friend had dry eye that day.
Thank you . God bless you !
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